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Hey everybody!!!  I need your assistance.  MTV is currently having a contest to choose their first ever MTV TJ, this person will be the face of social networking for all things MTV.  Who better than me Brandy AKA B.KNOWN to be the first!  I appreciate all of your support in advance.  Please click on the photo below in order to nominate me.  I’ve already been co-signed by Luda and many others I need all of you!!!  Thanks

NOMINATE @BKNOWN TO BE MTV’s FIRST MTV TJ…. CLICK ON PHOTO BELOW, LIKE KEVIN LILES SAID…

“Make it Happen” (book I’m reading in the pic)



So I woke up on this beautiful Wednesday morning and I have to admit the following video made my day.  Now the real question is after allll this back and forth who actually won?  I have that answer….email me if you wanna know!  Enjoy!



If you are on the east side of the state of Michigan this weekend make sure to check out the homey Braylon Edwards Celebrity Basketball game at University of Michigan’s Crisler Arena in Ann Arbor, MI.  Join him and his celebrity friends as well as a Half Time performance by Wale!  Hey the way it’s looking I might even be in the building volunteering!  See you there!

Follow him on twitter @OfficialBraylon

To purchase tickets and for additional information about this event and others go to

http://www.braylonedwardsfoundation.org/



I like to call this photographers corner!  I’ve had the opportunity to work with several great photographers and I am actually a fan of great photogs so what better way to start it  than with the one and only Ransom Rockwood.

For more of his diverse body of work head over to http://www.rhotopgrapic.com

follow him on twitter @rhophotos

Enjoy…here’s a small taste and a surprise at the end….only for you guys



I’ve been gone for a minute, but now I’m slowly coming back to share my inspiration or to let people know they aren’t alone or to give another view point that you may not have considered before.  First and foremost I wanted to state that fact that the reason I haven’t really blogged to much  is because the place that my inspiration has been derived from as of late is from a very personal place and can come across as “played out”, but nevertheless I’ve realized that I can’t control where my motivation comes from it just comes lol.  So with that being said let’s get into this!
I’m working on a series in regards to Male and Female relationships and the dynamics of those interactions, the first one is called….
The Visitation Rule:
What is this rule about you may ask, but I’m sure many of you can guess by the title where I’m about to go with this and to paint the picture perfectly clear I’m going to be 100% real and divulge some very personal information.  In 2005 at the age of 21 there was a guy that I really liked.  He had tried to sleep with me for about 5 months leading up to when I finally took a trip to see him.  All the times he made his advances I denied him even though I physically was attracted to him.  So after several conversations and him telling me that sex wasn’t really that important he flew me to see him and lo and behold…we had sex.  Now in my mind even though I was physically attracted to him in the back of my mind I felt a sense of obligation to sleep with him, the outcome of the situation was he sent my ass home after treating me for 3 days and didn’t speak to me unless there was an opportunity for us to sleep together or by some chance ran into each other.  We’re still cool and speak to this day, but I learned a lot from that one situation.  Fast forward to 25 year old Brandy who lives in Las Vegas.  As you may well know Las Vegas is a transient city and the majority of men that I come across are strictly looking for a good time considering the fact that I live here, the fast life of participating in random flings is far from appealing to me.  Yet and still I have several men that I know from out of town who insist on asking me the following questions, “so when are you going to show me around Vegas”, “when can I come visit”, “so when are you going to invite me to Vegas”.  As much as I would like to be a tour guide for male friends or men seeking my attention it takes entirely too much energy and my response to those comments depending on who it is: “Don’t plan any trips out to Vegas just to see me”.  I feel like there is really only one occasion under which a man should come to Vegas and know without a shadow of a doubt that I’ll actually show you around and we do the caked up thing….and that’s if we are dating.  To put this into perspective, the only man to come to Vegas and get 95% of my attention was my ex for obvious reasons.  The reality of the situation is this, and all men are not like this, but in his mind I’m led to believe from personal/past experience that no man is flying across the country to “just chill”!  This is why I avoid male company, the only time I truly feel okay with hanging out with a guy that’s in town is if they are already coming into town and the sole purpose of their trip is not to see me, but to come to Vegas.  The reality of this is that a lot of people actually feel this way and lord knows I’m not trying to invite someone to visit me/stay with me and they end up pissed off because they thought I was joking about not wanting to have sex.  So the visitation rule is this, unless we’re working on a relationship, in a relationship, or you’re already in town for a reason unrelated to me….there is no visitation!  What do you think?


So last night as I sat on my couch and watched a movie around 12am I received a call.  I don’t get too many anonymous calls, but my interest was peaked as to who could possibly be calling me this late and didn’t want me to know who they were.  After three or four rings I answered the phone and there was a woman on the other end, she didn’t say hello or anything, she got straight to business.  The first thing she asked was “Do you know _______?”.  So my first thought was okay this is a friend of mines girl who is going thru his phone and calling females to see if he ‘s creeping.  Slightly offended and caught off guard I quickly told her that I knew him, but that was the extent of it and that she had reached me in error.  She then told me the shocking news and she stated the following, “Two weeks ago we found out that my best friend contracted AIDS from him and he gave us his phone to contact people”.  As I sat there in shock and disbelief at what I was hearing she began to mention that her friend had been in a mental instituation and was taking this hard as I would expect anyone who has been given what’s thought of as a death sentence at the hands of someone they trusted would be.  Af ter several more minutes of this young lady divulging information to me I left the conversation and told her I would keep her friend in my prayers.  Needless to say it really spooked me and made me think about the fact that we all slip up sometimes and think we can trust people with our bodies and our lives.  I thought to myself, “what if that name had of been different”, “how would I react”???  So many questions and answers that I never want to have to come up with.  I ignore HIV/AIDS awareness week or month every year, it’s a taboo topic that non of us really want to ackowledge fully.  Granted I’ve been tested and knowing is beautiful, but ladies, fellas got to be more careful I know I sound like an after school special, but rap it up everytime!  Don’t be a statistic! 



It’s crazy how now I understand what he meant by unconditional love, God’s love.  He was preparing me for the day when I would be so fed up that the only thing that would stop me from blasting off and being spiteful and angry would be unconditional love.  Love with out condition.  Even though I really want to be on this blog and talk about how wrong he did me and how much money, time and work on his behalf  that I can’t get back….I can’t get it back.  Even though my heart was heavy with disappointment in the words of so many other people in my life and in his “when people show you who they are believe them”.  No one can hide who they are all the time, eventually  people either find it in their hearts to be sincerely good, good to you or once they’ve gotten all they can from you, they move on to the next.  The reason I’m not angrily ranting or calling names is because I’ve been blessed to have someone come into my life that doesn’t really know who they are, but through them being in my life taught me alot about myself, and for that I thank him.  I was headed down a road of confusion and I was brought back to God, I was in need of self discovery and I found some books that helped me ask some important questions about my life.  I never knew I had the capacity to allow someone into my life like I did him and now I know I can.  I refuse to believe that a man can’t appreciate me revising a business plan , giving him sound advice, flying to see him whenever I can, introducing him to my boss and closest friends, buy him things, cook, help find ways to grow his business, stand up for him when I know he’s wrong.  It’s just that he has to be willing to do the same in return, I’m waiting on so many people to say I told you so and I’ll take that, but above all if you never learn then what’s the purpose?  There is a lesson to be learned and I def can say I walked away a stronger person and I know I have the capacity to give all this and more to someone very deserving some day.  I want all business owners to do better in general, if you have people grinding with you day after day behind the scenes and in front of the scenes make sure you appreciate them, those are the people that will get you to where you need to go those people come first. 
In conclusion over the past week I’ve found out a lot of things that if I didn’t know how to handle the right way would have kept me down, complaining being ungrateful, but all day everyday all I’ve been able to do is smile.  I have been around some great people and I know I have young women that look up to me and moping around about a guy is not the example I want to set.  People always say God puts you through trials to prepare you for your blessings and as soon as I understood that God didn’t want him for me right now that’s when I was able to receive my blessings in abundance! I wish you nothing but the best and I’m praying for you, thanks for everything babes and I mean that from the bottom of my heart **kisses**! God Bless

In Closing will neva 4get ya!

Jump Rope feat. Tennille – The Cool Kids and Don Cannon